<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Unknown Unknowns]]></title><description><![CDATA[Exploring what you don't see]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com</link><image><url>https://chr.iswong.com/img/substack.png</url><title>Unknown Unknowns</title><link>https://chr.iswong.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2026 14:50:37 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://chr.iswong.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Chris W]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[cwong@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[cwong@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[cwong@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[cwong@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[AI & Writing]]></title><description><![CDATA[David Perell wrote his take on AI and writing recently where he talks about how humans are losing the comparative advantage in writing to AIs.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/ai-and-writing</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/ai-and-writing</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Feb 2025 20:28:08 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David Perell wrote his take on AI and writing recently where he talks about how humans are losing the comparative advantage in writing to AIs.  </p><p>https://x.com/david_perell/status/1894143267878703562</p><p>But the benefits of writing aren&#8217;t because of their comparative advantage.  Writing is a skill that leads to self-improvement.</p><p>I responded:</p><p>I've been a part of the last seven cohorts of David&#8217;s course. And he's underselling his course and overselling LLMs. </p><p>First, because his course emphasizes the type of writing that he himself says will last - personal writing and unique perspectives. </p><p>Second, because the outcome that will be undermined the most (audience building) is not among the four best outcomes of Write of Passage. </p><ol><li><p>The process of writing is a gateway to introspection. You will learn more about yourself when you develop a practice of writing than in any other experience save meditation. </p></li><li><p>Write of Passages teaches and fosters an iterative process, which is transferable to learning any future skill. And mastering this process is the clearest path to cultivating agency that I've found. </p></li><li><p>"I love the community!" is the universal response to "What's the best thing about WoP?" WoP alumni are more enthusiastic and proud than Cross-Fitters, Texans, and Bitcoin-maxis. </p></li><li><p>Write of Passage gave me permission to publish my writing. There's nothing better than telling someone that their writing belongs out in the world - and I've been on both sides.</p></li></ol>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Metric-Maxis]]></title><description><![CDATA[Metric-Maxis roam the earth.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/metric-maxis</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/metric-maxis</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2025 14:13:03 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Metric-Maxis roam the earth.  People who believe the metric system should be universal.</p><p>The metric system is a tool, and should be used when it&#8217;s the most useful.  Fahrenheit is a better system for everyday life.  0F is around the lowest temperature in a person&#8217;s experience and 100F is around the highest.  0-100 is an intuitive scale, everyone has a feel for where any data point is on that scale.  That same range is -18 to 38 in Celsius.  Which is more intuitive?</p><p>When I was a kid, I came up with a metric for time.  It did not work and it&#8217;s obvious why.  There are at least two fundamental time cycles. 24 hour days and 365 day years.  One is not a factor of 10 from the other, so any time metric system could not involve both cycles.  The metric system is not universally useful and should only be used when it is.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Population and Power]]></title><description><![CDATA[Before the mid-twentieth century, power was accumulated by expanding your borders.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/population-and-power</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/population-and-power</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jan 2025 16:10:04 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Before the mid-twentieth century, power was accumulated by expanding your borders.  Now, the Overton Window has shifted and it&#8217;s frowned upon to invade your neighbors.  But, back when this was acceptable, adding more territory brought more assets and placated the populace (the increased wealth flowed to the people, a form of the Cantillon Effect).  A stronger military made it possible to subjugate other lands and higher populations made for stronger militaries.  This is one reason why most religions encourage fecundity.</p><p>But the larger population can also destabilize so you need to keep focus on expansion.  The story of the Byzantine general Belisarius is an example of the tightrope rulers walk.  He was imprisoned because he was too effective in subjugating the empire&#8217;s enemies.  The emperor feared he would become too popular and return to the capital to take power.</p><p>Now, it&#8217;s discouraged to overtly exert power over your neighbors.  Power is applied indirectly.  Since the populace&#8217;s energy can no longer be redirected toward foreign enemies, governments now discourage fertility to maintain internal control.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Real Alignment Problem]]></title><description><![CDATA[&#8220;AI ethicists&#8221; wrestle with the idea of alignment - will AI be aligned with human interests and if not, should we stop innovating with AI?]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/the-real-alignment-problem</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/the-real-alignment-problem</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jan 2025 21:27:35 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;AI ethicists&#8221; wrestle with the idea of alignment - will AI be aligned with human interests and if not, should we stop innovating with AI?  Side-stepping the idea that self-proclaimed ethicists and moralists have any standing, we tend to forget that we currently do not have any alignment between our governments and ourselves.</p><p>Since the Gettysburg address, Americans believe that democracy is &#8220;of the people, by the people, for the people.&#8221;  But this is a myth.  Like any relationship between any groups of people, government is subject to <a href="https://chr.iswong.com/p/the-principal-agent-problem">the principal-agent problem</a>.  There is no incentive for the government to look out for the welfare of its people.  Not even re-election (The congressional approval rating is 17% and congressional incumbents are re-elected over 90% of the time).</p><div class="pullquote"><p>&#8220;Democracy is the worst form of government, except for all the others.&#8221; - Winston Churchill</p></div><p>To get alignment in government, you must have self-government.  You must be responsible for as many choices as possible.  The default must be less government overreach.</p><div class="pullquote"><p>A democracy cannot exist as a permanent form of government. It can only exist until the voters discover that they can vote themselves largesse from the public treasury. From that moment on, the majority always votes for the candidates promising the most benefits from the public treasury with the result that democracy always collapses over loose fiscal policy, always followed by a dictatorship. - Alexander Fraser Tytler</p></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[AI and the Eisenhower Matrix]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Eisenhower matrix is a tool to prioritize your to-do list.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/ai-and-the-eisenhower-matrix</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/ai-and-the-eisenhower-matrix</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jan 2025 20:53:20 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!d5fx!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F14b966b9-1536-4058-ba3d-9f8ab4b473f1_766x522.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div 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y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>The Eisenhower matrix is a tool to prioritize your to-do list.  You should focus on Urgent/Important while making time for Not Urgent/Important.  To have this time, you need to delegate Urgent/Not Important items and ignore the Not Urgent/Not Important.  What you find out is everything you&#8217;re working on is Urgent/Not Important and that&#8217;s why nothing gets done.  </p><p>Listening to <a href="https://commoncog.com/lia-dibello-neil-sahota-human-ai-symbiosis/">the Commoncog podcast episode with Lia DiBello and Neil Sahota</a>, they make the point that humans combined with AI is a situation where the sum is bigger than the components.</p><p>Anyway, this made me think of the Eisenhower matrix.  The biggest gains from AI might be applications that address the Delegate quadrant.  What apps can you build that will help people with Urgent but Not Important tasks?</p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Economics and Street Lights]]></title><description><![CDATA[Competition is baked into standard economic dogma, in part because perfect competition results in equilibrium dynamics, which are easy to model.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/economics-and-street-lights</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/economics-and-street-lights</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jan 2025 20:39:18 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="pullquote"><p>Competition is baked into standard economic dogma, in part because perfect competition results in equilibrium dynamics, which are easy to model. - <a href="https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/7LZHS4afrXCNuuGK9/book-summary-zero-to-one">Bilal Chughtai</a></p></div><p>There&#8217;s an old joke about a guy looking for his keys under a streetlight.  Another guy comes along and helps him look.  After ten fruitless minutes, the second guy asks the first guy where he dropped them.  He points twenty feet away and the second guy asks him, &#8220;Why are you looking here then?&#8221;  He answers, &#8220;It&#8217;s where the light is.&#8221;</p><p>All of undergraduate economics is focused on modeling equilibriums (I don&#8217;t know if this is true or not for graduate level).  If any state changes, it&#8217;s assumed that a new equilibrium will be found.  The normal world, where every variable is constantly in flux, is waved away.</p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Prodox]]></title><description><![CDATA[Paranoia is when you think the universe is conspiring against you.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/prodox</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/prodox</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jan 2025 23:03:38 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Paranoia is when you think the universe is conspiring against you.  The opposite, pronoia, is when you think the universe is conspiring for you.</p><p>A paradox is when two assumptions lead to a self-contradictory conclusion.</p><p>I&#8217;ve been working on the idea that <a href="https://chr.iswong.com/p/the-dance-of-the-bees">two contradictory thoughts can lead to something greater</a> but I&#8217;ve been having trouble formulating how it works or even what to call it.  But when I read <a href="https://www.honest-broker.com/p/why-gregory-bateson-matters-a8d">Why Gregory Bateson Matters</a>, the idea of the double bind was exactly the opposite of contradictory thoughts that cause growth.</p><div class="pullquote"><p>The double bind represents a situation in which a person is required to do two things simultaneously, but these things are in conflict with each other. In the words of the well-known proverb, you are damned if you do, and damned if you don&#8217;t.</p><p>-Ted Gioia</p></div><p>Borrowing from the similarity to a paradox and the paranoia/pronoia relationship, I present &#8220;prodox&#8221; - when two contradictions lead to growth.</p><p>Some examples: two finance tropes, first &#8220;Let your winners run&#8221; vs &#8220;You never lose money taking a profit.&#8221;  I always thought that this demonstrated that financial advice was trite but if you follow both simultaneously you&#8217;re forced to examine the facts more closely.</p><p>Explore vs exploit: The tension between the two facilitates your curiosity.</p><p>Learning vs trying: I&#8217;ve found that the most effective way to learn is by alternating book learning with real life experience.  The experience gives context and allows you to explore the nuances and the book learning can lead you to new areas.  It&#8217;s the same as alternating first principles with experimenting.</p><p>Conservative vs liberal: status quo vs change.  Change is the only way to grow but unchecked change can lead to chaos.  Likewise, the status quo may be effective now, but the world is constantly changing so stasis will eventually lead to failure.</p><p>Evolution: an animal&#8217;s environment changes over time.  Evolution is the survival of the fittest - the most adaptable survive.  But changing too much will also decrease survivability.</p><p>The common thread is tension.  Tension between two poles creates stress and dynamism.  Edge cases get discovered and explored.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Control and Daylight Savings Time]]></title><description><![CDATA[Is Daylight Savings Time the problem or that we have no control over our schedule?]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/control-and-daylight-savings-time</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/control-and-daylight-savings-time</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 22 Dec 2024 17:26:01 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is Daylight Savings Time the problem or that we have no control over our schedule?</p><p>If we decide what time to wake up, do we care if the sun rises at 6am or 7am?</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Curious People Naturally Tend Toward Decentralization]]></title><description><![CDATA[You can&#8217;t have Authoritarianism over Curious People and Curious People naturally tend toward decentralization.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/curious-people-naturally-tend-toward</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/curious-people-naturally-tend-toward</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 22 Dec 2024 17:24:01 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You can&#8217;t have Authoritarianism over Curious People and Curious People naturally tend toward decentralization.  </p><p>Authoritarianism doesn&#8217;t work over curious people.  Curious people naturally question the whys and hows and no centralized authority will have a 1.000 batting average.  There is always room for improvement.  Curious people can <em>become</em> authoritarian, but at that point they&#8217;re moving away from their curiosity.</p><p>If you&#8217;re curious, you will tend toward decentralization.  Your curiosity will lead you into exploring alternative perspectives and solutions.</p><p>You can&#8217;t simultaneously support authoritarianism and curiosity.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Statistical Numeracy]]></title><description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve heard many people make the argument that our lifespans have increased and people thousands of years ago died in their twenties.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/statistical-numeracy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/statistical-numeracy</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Dec 2024 21:02:03 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve heard many people make the argument that our lifespans have increased and people thousands of years ago died in their twenties.  </p><p>This shows a lack of understanding of statistics.  The average age of death was that low because infant mortality was much higher.  If you survived into childhood, the average age of death was not much lower than now.  </p><p>But I hear so many people use &#8220;ancient people died in their twenties&#8221; as an assumption in their arguments.  When I hear this, I immediately discount the speaker as a serious person.  They are either intellectually dishonest, incurious, or lacking in logic.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[First Principles]]></title><description><![CDATA[When I hear the term &#8220;First Principles,&#8221; I think of building something from scratch.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/first-principles</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/first-principles</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Dec 2024 02:33:07 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I hear the term &#8220;First Principles,&#8221; I think of building something from scratch.  What are the bedrock facts and what can we deduce from them?  But deriving feels hard.  </p><p>Another approach is to take the negative.  Anything that goes against a First Principle must be wrong.  You don&#8217;t have to expand on the idea of conservation of energy, if you hear an idea that violates conservation of energy, it must be wrong.  This feels like an easier application of First Principles.</p><p>We know that incentives drive behavior, I would say this is a principle of human behavior.  So when you don&#8217;t take into consideration how humans are incentivized, you&#8217;re not going to get the behavior you expect.</p><p>Example, assuming that a politician is looking out for the good of the people.</p><p><a href="https://fs.blog/great-talks/psychology-human-misjudgment/">Charlie Munger has a list of twenty-five human misjudgements</a>.  What if we take this list as First Principles?  What if we eliminate all of our assumptions that violate these misjudgements?</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Eating Shit]]></title><description><![CDATA[&#8220;I don&#8217;t like work&#8212;no man does&#8212;but I like what is in the work&#8212;the chance to find yourself.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/eating-shit</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/eating-shit</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 17 Dec 2024 00:59:11 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="pullquote"><p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t like work&#8212;no man does&#8212;but I like what is in the work&#8212;the chance to find yourself. Your own reality&#8212;for yourself not for others&#8212;what no other man can ever know. They can only see the mere show, and never can tell what it really means.&#8221; - Joseph Conrad</p></div><p>Eating shit can be good and bad.  Good?  Surfing.  Bad?  Working for someone else.</p><p>There's two ways of eating shit when you surf.  One is when you're physically capable of riding the waves.  The other is when the waves are physically challenging.  When you're physically capable of riding the waves but you can't catch them, the shit you're eating is mental.  I'm not at the point where I realize what's going wrong.  Am I too far forward?  Am I too far backward?  Am I not going fast enough?  Doing more reps when you're not sure why can be mentally taxing.  When waves are physically challenging, you also need mental strength to keep going out there.  Getting crushed and knowing you have to paddle back out just to get crushed again.  </p><p>Either way, you know you need to eat the shit to get better.  You won't improve without the reps.</p><p>When you work for someone else, you eat a lot of shit.  Pointless work, the wasting of time, unless you have a great relationship and communication skills you will eat shit.  And it's not productive.  You can be productive despite the shit eating, but the actual eating of shit is useless.  It's inevitable because everyone has different values and priorities.  Your boss does not value your free time as much as you do.  </p><p>Repetition is necessary to learn because repetition builds taste.  You develop a sense for what quality is and how to recognize it and how to express it.  The difference in the surfing and job examples is that in the job you are doing reps on something that you don't care about.  You're developing taste in eating shit, not in something you actually value.  The exception to eating shit at the job is when you are perfectly aligned with the work that you're doing - you're in it for the work itself not for downstream effects.</p><p>However, what is useful from eating shit, good or bad, is that you learn more about yourself.  You can learn what you care about.  You can learn how you respond to adverse conditions.  You can learn how much you can suffer.  But these are all "cans."  You won't unless you're introspective.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to Find a Teacher]]></title><description><![CDATA[&#8220;When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.&#8221;]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/how-to-find-a-teacher</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/how-to-find-a-teacher</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 27 Nov 2024 18:54:34 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.&#8221;</p><p>Teachers are always present and willing to teach.  But they don&#8217;t want to waste their time.  I&#8217;m reminded of Derek Siver&#8217;s story, <a href="https://sive.rs/kimo">There&#8217;s No Speed Limit</a>.  His mentor, Kimo Williams, offers to help many aspiring music students and tells them to show up at 9AM.  But only Derek did.</p><p>A better saying might be, &#8220;Students will see teachers when they are open to learning.&#8221;</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Forgiveness]]></title><description><![CDATA[For most of my life, I didn&#8217;t understand forgiveness.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/forgiveness</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/forgiveness</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 Nov 2024 22:12:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!M2iJ!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd697ad4b-5c38-497b-9d4a-101d18d575a5_671x842.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For most of my life, I didn&#8217;t understand forgiveness.  I still don&#8217;t, honestly.  But I&#8217;m thinking that it&#8217;s a way of surrendering to the universe.  What happened, happened.  What will happen, will happen.</p><blockquote><p>Forgiveness doesn't mean condoning wrongdoing or absolving someone of the consequences of their actions. Instead, it's a personal choice to release the emotional burden of anger and resentment. - <a href="https://edlatimore.substack.com/p/why-you-want-revengeand-why-you-shouldnt">Ed Latimore</a></p></blockquote><p>Forgiveness isn&#8217;t about righting wrongs, bringing justice, or fairness.  It&#8217;s about freedom.  Freedom to live your life without the burdens of the past.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://www.kindspring.org/story/view.php?sid=63753" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!M2iJ!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd697ad4b-5c38-497b-9d4a-101d18d575a5_671x842.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!M2iJ!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd697ad4b-5c38-497b-9d4a-101d18d575a5_671x842.png 848w, 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y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Do I Need This?]]></title><description><![CDATA[After more than four decades, the answer is usually no.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/do-i-need-this</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/do-i-need-this</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 25 Nov 2024 13:59:32 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After more than four decades, the answer is usually no.  I can see before I buy something if it will be useful.</p><p>But when you buy baby stuff, it&#8217;s not for me.  I can&#8217;t see how the baby would use or enjoy it.</p><p>Jobs-to-be-Done (JTBD) are the essential point of a solution.  Remember that marketing story about you don&#8217;t need a drill, you need a hole?  The hole is the JTBD, the drill is the tool to accomplish it.  The basic JTBDs for babies are feed them, get them to sleep, keep them clean.  </p><p>But the marketing for baby items doesn&#8217;t address JTBDs and it&#8217;s hard to find parents who think like this.  I don&#8217;t care what pattern a burp cloth is, I want to know if it&#8217;s absorbent and easy to clean.</p><p>It&#8217;s hard to tell the functionality from a website and even in person it&#8217;s hard because I&#8217;m the one trying it out, but I&#8217;m not the one that&#8217;s going to be using it.  And even if the one who&#8217;s going to use it was here, he won&#8217;t be able to tell me what qualities he values for years.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Improving Baby Formula is Almost Impossible]]></title><description><![CDATA[Compare baby formula to junk food or soda and you get screamed at.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/current-baby-formula-is</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/current-baby-formula-is</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 23 Nov 2024 16:39:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!gp_B!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbd2b3793-e52c-4d9d-a400-9cb617962ad8_1590x551.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Compare baby formula to junk food or soda and you get screamed at.  Some mothers don&#8217;t have the time, energy, or opportunity to breast feed!  Ok&#8230; but does the alternative have to be shit?</p><p>I went on a deep-dive of baby formula last night:</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!gp_B!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbd2b3793-e52c-4d9d-a400-9cb617962ad8_1590x551.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!gp_B!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbd2b3793-e52c-4d9d-a400-9cb617962ad8_1590x551.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!gp_B!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbd2b3793-e52c-4d9d-a400-9cb617962ad8_1590x551.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!gp_B!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbd2b3793-e52c-4d9d-a400-9cb617962ad8_1590x551.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!gp_B!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbd2b3793-e52c-4d9d-a400-9cb617962ad8_1590x551.png 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!gp_B!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbd2b3793-e52c-4d9d-a400-9cb617962ad8_1590x551.png" width="1456" height="505" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/bd2b3793-e52c-4d9d-a400-9cb617962ad8_1590x551.png&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:505,&quot;width&quot;:1456,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:58565,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/png&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!gp_B!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbd2b3793-e52c-4d9d-a400-9cb617962ad8_1590x551.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!gp_B!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbd2b3793-e52c-4d9d-a400-9cb617962ad8_1590x551.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!gp_B!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbd2b3793-e52c-4d9d-a400-9cb617962ad8_1590x551.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!gp_B!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbd2b3793-e52c-4d9d-a400-9cb617962ad8_1590x551.png 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>These are all supposedly better formulations, but you can see that almost every single one contains sunflower or rapeseed oil.  The mainstream ones are even worse and have high-fructose corn syrup.</p><p>The top three formulas on my chart are marked as &#8220;Toddler.&#8221;  Infant and Toddler formulas are highly regulated but it&#8217;s easier to get Toddler formula approved.  So a <a href="https://myserenitykids.com/blogs/news/toddler-formula-vs-infant-formula-what-is-the-difference">Toddler formula could be appropriate for infants but not be labeled as such</a>.</p><p>Stamps-of-approval are detrimental if they&#8217;re not correct.  Each product has to be approved.  A better way would be to have the guidelines of what needs to be fulfilled and then compare the product against the guidelines.  New products have a difficult and long road to approval and existing products remain popular even if they&#8217;re crap.</p><p>The best way to improve products is through consumer buying pressure and having products go through a regulatory agency prevents that.  </p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Liminal Space vs Practical Delusions]]></title><description><![CDATA[In the discussion for Opposing Forces Create Liminal Space, I said liminal spaces are &#8220;when you know that what you thought was true isn't, but you don't yet have something to replace it.&#8221; This space is an opportunity to grow because you&#8217;re no longer constrained by something that isn&#8217;t true.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/liminal-space-vs-practical-delusions</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/liminal-space-vs-practical-delusions</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 22 Nov 2024 16:14:41 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the discussion for <a href="https://chr.iswong.com/p/opposing-forces-create-liminal-space">Opposing Forces Create Liminal Space,</a> I said liminal spaces are &#8220;when you know that what you thought was true isn't, but you don't yet have something to replace it.&#8221;  This space is an opportunity to grow because you&#8217;re no longer constrained by something that isn&#8217;t true.</p><p>Practical delusions are &#8220;things that are useful to believe, even if they're unlikely to be true.&#8221;  Examples are &#8220;treat every gun like it&#8217;s loaded,&#8221; or &#8220;I can determine my own destiny.&#8221;</p><p>This definition of liminal spaces is focused on truth, while practical delusions are focused on usefulness.  </p><p>I thought there was a contradiction between them, but you could still be a truth seeker but still use practical delusions.  And what&#8217;s to stop you from thinking of yourself to be in a liminal space when you really aren&#8217;t?</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Opposing Forces Create Liminal Space]]></title><description><![CDATA[Liminal space is where the magic happens.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/opposing-forces-create-liminal-space</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/opposing-forces-create-liminal-space</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 21 Nov 2024 14:15:39 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Liminal space is where the magic happens.  Edge cases.  Uncertainty, but where you can extrapolate.  It&#8217;s like exploring the ocean within sight of the shore.  A baby learning to walk within reach of a parent&#8217;s hand.</p><p>Liminal space is bordered by opposing forces.  Supply and Demand create dynamics that reach the most useful equilibriums (pareto points).  Liberalism and Conservatism create evolution, but with checks.</p><p>Finance is full of contradictory aphorisms.  Let you winners run.  No one went poor taking money off the table.  I used to think that this showed that no one knew anything and people wanted to look smart but just were demonstrating recency hindsight.  But now I think you should assume both are true.  If both are true, what does that mean?  Under what circumstances is one true and what circumstances the other?  Where is the flipping point?</p><p>On Jim O&#8217;Shaughnessy&#8217;s podcast Infinite Loops he often says, &#8220;the opposite of a truth can be a truth.  The opposite of a virtue can be a virtue.&#8221;  Often, when this happens, it&#8217;s a greater truth and a greater virtue.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Agency is Magic]]></title><description><![CDATA[Alex Komoroske has an interesting lens on power in The Sarumans and the Radagasts. He calls power, magic, in this metaphor. Sarumans wield magic by compounding belief - I&#8217;ve heard this method summarized as &#8220;Never underestimate a man who overestimates himself.&#8221; Radagasts&#8217; magic comes from understanding systems and supporting the actors in those systems. Read the essay for more detail, but an interesting idea comes at the end of the essay. Most Radagasts are first Sarumans.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/agency-is-magic</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/agency-is-magic</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 Nov 2024 14:37:32 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="mention-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Alex Komoroske&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:1781724,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;user&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://bucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/f8504ce7-f35f-4042-b6a6-69a12d3e3c34_938x938.jpeg&quot;,&quot;uuid&quot;:&quot;50e95428-c3d2-4fb4-9fd4-c4e48ff1f8d7&quot;}" data-component-name="MentionToDOM"></span> has an interesting lens on power in <a href="https://medium.com/@komorama/the-sarumans-and-the-radagasts-6392f889d142">The Sarumans and the Radagasts</a>.  He calls power, magic, in this metaphor.  Sarumans wield magic by compounding belief - I&#8217;ve heard this method summarized as &#8220;Never underestimate a man who overestimates himself.&#8221;  Radagasts&#8217; magic comes from understanding systems and supporting the actors in those systems.  Read the essay for more detail, but an interesting idea comes at the end of the essay.  Most Radagasts are first Sarumans.</p><p>This seems odd.  Why would you change philosophies?  But power and magic can also be called <em>agency</em>.  Identifying as a Saruman is the fastest way to becoming agentic.  You try to do something no one else thinks you can do, it works, you think you can do more things.  But at some point you realize that this works because you were pushing mental boundaries, not reality boundaries.  The limits that you were overcoming by bullshitting were self-imposed limits.  When you hit reality your realize you can&#8217;t accomplish something by yourself.  You can push in another direction, you can keep hammering away, you can see yourself as a failure, or you can give up ownership and help other people reach the goal.  The last is becoming a Radagast.</p><p>Let&#8217;s shift from a fantasy metaphor to a science-fiction metaphor.  Saruman is the Dark Side of The Force and Radagast is the Light Side.  The Dark Side is &#8220;quicker, easier, more seductive.&#8221;  But it&#8217;s not more powerful.  It&#8217;s just faster to get results.  The Light Side, you need to be &#8220;calm, at peace.  Passive.&#8221;  Not a great metaphor because the Dark Side is not a great starter set for learning the Force.  In Star Wars, Jedis fall from the Light Side because they get impatient and want results.  Redemption is rare.</p><p>The Saruman/Radagast metaphor is to become agentic and then realize that more can be accomplished through the efforts of other people.  But you can&#8217;t support other people without being agentic yourself.  Saruman personifies gaining agency, Radagast personifies the limits of ego.</p><p>In real life, the maligned Landmark program is a way through this progression.  You first learn to be agentic by realizing all the limitations that are self-imposed.  Eventually, you start a project, only to be told to hand off that project to someone else. That handoff teaches you to prioritize the project, not your ego.  And if you want that project to succeed, you need to support the new leader.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Imposter Syndrome and Permissioning]]></title><description><![CDATA[Imposter syndrome is when you feel like you aren&#8217;t qualified to do something.]]></description><link>https://chr.iswong.com/p/imposter-syndrome-and-permissioning</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://chr.iswong.com/p/imposter-syndrome-and-permissioning</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chris Wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 19 Nov 2024 14:00:21 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Imposter syndrome is when you feel like you aren&#8217;t qualified to do something.  When you feel that you don&#8217;t belong among your peers.</p><p>When I don&#8217;t do something that I say I want to do it&#8217;s because I&#8217;m subconsciously waiting for permission.  </p><p>Imposter syndrome and permissioning is the same thing</p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>