It’s impossible to convince someone that your taste is correct, and it’s even harder to convince them that their taste is wrong. We say that opinion is subjective. And that means that the factual descriptions can’t describe why you like something. For example, you could say that some food has 10,000 Scoville
I agree that other people judging you doesn’t mean anything. But judgement isn't entirely pointless.
Every judgement I make about others says something about me. It shows me what I value deep down inside even if I refuse to admit it on the surface. Every act of judgement is an opportunity for learning and growth (for the "judge").
I also see judgement as an unconscious defense mechanism for our egos. Which is just to say that it's not something we can just stop doing. Have you tried? So, we may as well make the most of them as learning opportunities.
I agree that other people judging you doesn’t mean anything. But judgement isn't entirely pointless.
Every judgement I make about others says something about me. It shows me what I value deep down inside even if I refuse to admit it on the surface. Every act of judgement is an opportunity for learning and growth (for the "judge").
I also see judgement as an unconscious defense mechanism for our egos. Which is just to say that it's not something we can just stop doing. Have you tried? So, we may as well make the most of them as learning opportunities.