I'm not a kind person. But I can be kind. I know this sounds contradictory, but I will attempt to explain. Whoever you are, you sacrifice so much more than you realize to your altar of identity.Thanks for reading Unknown Unknowns! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.
Haha kindly efficient or efficiently kind made me laugh. I have the same problem any time my fiancé or mom shares something they are struggling with. I need to remind myself to stop trying to fix them and just shut up and listen.
I've also been exploring some of Paul Millerd's writing and podcasts. Any you recommend starting with?
What a philosophically thought provoking piece! Made me wonder if "identity" is how other people perceive me or who I think I am or who I am intrinsically (or empirically).